Subtle Introspection

Subtle Introspection
November 14, 2017
Here are ten subtle things it's easy to miss about yourself that you may find it valuable to pay mindful attention to: Your natural posture when sitting at your computer → this may affect how your body feels in 20 yearsWhere emotions manifest in your body (e.g., I feel anxiety in my chest and annoyance as a twinge in my face) → greater awareness here may help you more quickly and accurately id...
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16 Potentially-Dystopian Utopias

16 Potentially-Dystopian Utopias
November 7, 2017
Suppose that humans one day (whether 20 or 200 years from now) create far more advanced technology, with power sufficient to reshape what the world is like, and even to determine what humanity becomes. If that comes to pass, we’re going to be in trouble unless we also reach a better understanding of our own values and resolve the inconsistencies in them. We don’t have sufficient clarity on our...
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Cool Reboot for More Energy

Cool Reboot for More Energy
November 5, 2017
Do you tend to feel tired or 'out of it' midday? Do you not want to waste the rest of the day feeling like garbage? Try a Cool Reboot! It layers together six different techniques for feeling awake and only takes 30 minutes. Ingredients (all optional, skip any that you can't do now or don't like): - a very caffeinated beverage - a timer with an alarm (e.g., on your phone or alarm cl...
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Ten Useful Reframings

Ten Useful Reframings
November 1, 2017
1. I just made a huge mistake; what on earth is wrong with me? How the hell could I be so stupid? Reframe: I'll learn so much from this mistake that I'm never going to make one like it again. 2. This bag is too heavy, I have to walk way too far Reframe: Exercise is healthy, and people pay trainers to get them to lift heavy stuff or go on the treadmill, this is just exercise wit...
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13 Ways Some Companies Make Money While Causing Harm

13 Ways Some Companies Make Money While Causing Harm
October 17, 2017
I’ve often heard it said that if people buy the product a company or startup is selling, then the company must be creating value in the world. After all, why would someone buy a product if it were not creating value? It would be really nice if this were a valid argument (since then more units sold means more societal benefit). Unfortunately, it’s not. I like entrepreneurship a great deal and thin...
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A Simple Trick for Eating Healthier

A Simple Trick for Eating Healthier
October 8, 2017
I believe healthy eating is hard because it's often in tension with the three other things we typically care about when eating: taste, price, and convenience. When we're choosing what to eat, healthy food may not be the tasty, cheap, or convenient option. How can we prevent this tension between healthiness and the other factors we care about? Another reason healthy eating is hard is that ...
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Tips for Productive Disagreements

Tips for Productive Disagreements
October 6, 2017
Typically when two people disagree, neither makes significant progress in convincing the other, and little or nothing is learned on either side. It's tough to make real-life disagreements productive, but here are my favorite techniques for making it easier to do so. These help more if you are significantly motivated to use the disagreement to deepen mutual understanding of the issue. I'm as...
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Strategies for Improving Motion Sickness in Vehicles

Strategies for Improving Motion Sickness in Vehicles
October 5, 2017
In case you or a loved one get severe motion sickness in cars, boats, planes, trains, etc., here is a fairly comprehensive list of tricks that you might find helpful: If possible, choose to be the driver rather than the passenger.DO NOT use your phone or read in the vehicle.Always roll down the window when it's feasible, in order to get air blowing in your face (cool air is best). If rolling d...
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The Impact of Indirect Punishments

The Impact of Indirect Punishments
October 4, 2017
I think it’s important to be aware of what we punish other people for. Including, and perhaps especially, barely detectable punishments that we give (which we may ourselves only be dimly aware of), and punishments that we give to people in our life, such as friends, family members, romantic partners, and work colleagues. Since punishment reduces certain behaviors, it’s important to consider wh...
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How to Have a Better Experience on Facebook

How to Have a Better Experience on Facebook
September 30, 2017
Are you addicted to FB? Wish you used it less than you do? Feeling less happy, or less connected to your actual life? Finding that likes are way more important to you than you wish they were? Notice yourself tempted to scroll even though you are hanging out with a friend or loved one? Here are some steps that you may find useful to reduce the negative aspects of FB: Step 1: Turn off notific...
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