Gossip has a very bad reputation. The word "gossip" itself (and its synonyms, like "idle talk," tittle-tattle," "hearsay," "blather," and "rumor-mongering") have negative connotations. And this bad reputation is not totally unreasonable, as gossip is sometimes very harmful.
But, on some occasions, it's actually a very good and useful thing that people gossip. For instance, if someone in a community is genuinely very dangerous, it's important that the evidence of this is spread throughout the...
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Some Signs of Harmful or Untrustworthy Relationships
Coauthored with the Clearer Thinking team and cross-posted from the Clearer Thinking blog.
We recently conducted qualitative research by crowd-sourcing over 100 open-ended responses to the question:
"What signs do you look for that help you identify people who are likely to be untrustworthy or who are likely to hurt you if they become your close friend or partner?"
We thought the answers contained some insights that may help you to identify people with whom it would be risky ...
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