Below, I outline 13 approaches to predicting high levels of success with differing levels of complexity, including my own mega model at the bottom.
Note: here, I use the term "success" merely in terms of achievement, career success, or high levels of expertise, NOT in terms of happiness, living a good life, morality, having strong social bonds, etc. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be successful in the way this post focuses on. But if you DO want "success" in the sense in...
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Eight ways you can get more enjoyment from the same activity
A. FOCUS
1. Attention: focus on every detail of the experience much more intently than normal.
Ex: with each bite, notice as much as you can about the flavor and texture
Ex: try to hear every distinct instrument in the music as it comes in and fades out
2. Savoring: try to extend and enhance enjoyable moments by using "metacognition" - become aware of how much you're enjoying the thing and how great you feel it is, even as you're experiencing it.
Ex: rem...
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